We’ve been promised full-blown royal fanfare for this very particular World War Two anniversary.
Bunting is to line the corridors of Buckingham Palace and a tea birthday celebration for the general few veterans nonetheless alive might be the point of interest of financial institution vacation Monday.
With the Royal Family out in pressure to mark the 80th anniversary of VE Day on May 5, together with a carrier at Westminster Abbey and a balcony look with a fly previous, remember the circle of relatives’s personal enduring personal grief.
The overdue Queen, who so gallantly ties us again to the Blitz and her personal wartime carrier, is long gone however her stalwart cousin, HRH the Duke of Kent, very a lot stays.
Now in his 90th yr, I met the Duke at house in Wren House – relaxed in a checked blouse, a good-looking cane by way of his facet – he spoke brazenly in regards to the trauma that scorched his younger lifestyles and outlined his maturity: the surprising loss of life of his father, HRH Prince George the Duke of Kent, brother of King George VI, and the closing royal to die on energetic carrier when a Sunderland flying boat mysterious crashed within the Highlands of Scotland in August 1942.
Overnight, the present duke joined legions of British youngsters left and not using a father.
‘I do remember him,’ he sighs, ‘but I can’t come up with examples.’ Prince Edward, the brand new Duke of Kent, was once simply six years previous.
It is the duke’s personal secretary who quietly muses at the parallels between HRH’s lifestyles and Prince Harry’s.
The overdue Duke of Kent together with his spouse and son, Prince Edward, the present Duke of Kent, within the lawn of his nation house Coppins in Iver, Buckinghamshire, in 1937

Prince Harry sitting on his overdue mom’s lap throughout their summer time vacation in Palma, Spain


The Duke of Kent and Prince Harry suffered the lack of a father or mother very younger, and each have been pressured to desert operational tasks as a result of their royal standing
Both skilled the lack of a father or mother very younger, each discovered construction and goal within the Army and each have been pressured to desert operational tasks as a result of their royal standing.
The Duke of Kent was once withdrawn from Northern Ireland after simply 3 weeks at the floor, an revel in he discovered ‘embarrassing’. Harry’s devastation when his excursion was once minimize quick in Afghanistan could also be widely recognized.
Unlike the absent prince, the duke’s next post-army lifestyles has been cast in carrier to his nation – with 20 years within the Royal Scots Greys adopted by way of steadfast willpower to royal tasks, particularly the position of commemoration.
His name and title pepper memorials that span the globe and pass the rustic.
He marvels on the nature of this paintings: ‘I think it is a matter of remembering what sacrifice means. One of the things that always struck me going around those cemeteries is that many of them had special inscriptions put in by the families, a personal touch.’
Travel to the memorial pass, Eagle’s Rock, at the lip of the North Sea, the place the fated flying boat inexplicably crashed in 1942 and it’s arduous no longer to think about the younger, inclined, fatherless prince.
The duke first made the pilgrimage there as a teen together with his mom Princess Marina of Greece, and has steadily visited the faraway spot right through his lifestyles. Small marvel he unearths battle graves ‘absolutely heartbreaking to look at’. He is aware of what they in reality imply.
The day I visited Eagle’s Rock, it came about to be Prince Harry’s 40th birthday and I mused over but extra parallels between the 2 dukes.
Yes, Harry regrettably absconded from royal tasks in 2020. We know all too neatly in regards to the harm the Sussexes have wreaked at the royal emblem, however that are supposed to no longer detract from the prince’s necessary paintings at the commemorative circuit.

Prince Harry with a unique birthday message from the Royal Family on his 40th birthday


When he was once nonetheless a full-time operating royal, like his cousin the Duke of Kent, Harry stood out – a person who understood ache, he was once a beacon of solace for households who had misplaced family members

Prince Harry, salutes after laying pass of remembrance in reminiscence of his pal Lance Corporal of Horse Jonathan Woodgate

Queen Elizabeth II and Duke of Kent Service for The Order of St Michael and St George at St Paul’s Cathedral in 2008


The Duke of Kent was once withdrawn from Northern Ireland after simply 3 weeks at the floor, an revel in he discovered ‘embarrassing’. Harry’s devastation when his excursion was once minimize quick in Afghanistan could also be widely recognized

Author Tessa Dunlop travelled to the memorial pass, Eagle’s Rock, at the lip of the North Sea
When he was once nonetheless a full-time operating royal, like his cousin the Duke of Kent, Harry stood out – a person who understood ache, he was once a beacon of solace for the ones households who had misplaced family members in more moderen conflicts.
Writing a guide about 100 British monuments to battle, I’ve spoken to each other halves and moms whose husbands and sons have been killed in Afghanistan and Iraq. They discuss warmly of Harry.
Helen Lewis, whose son Lieutenant Aaron Lewis died in Afghanistan in 2008, remembers Harry’s empathy and talent to attach.
With her personal ache nonetheless very uncooked 3 years after shedding Aaron, it was once on the opening of the Lynyrd Garden of Remembrance at Wootton Bassett that she first talked to Harry.
She stated: ‘We were told the Prince wanted to meet us in private. When he walked in we stood up and he said, ‘Sit down, it is me that should be standing up’.
‘He requested us how we have been coping, it was once similar to sitting and chatting to one in every of Aaron’s buddies.’
Harry attached with Mrs Lewis and at later engagements all the time seemed out for her grandson Harrison, their lovable exchanges offering a lot wanted moments of levity.
‘Every year they would salute each other. And then, the first time we met him with Meghan, he told Harrison something special had happened. He’d had a toddler, Archie Harrison,’ Mrs Lewis smiles.
Nothing will carry Aaron again however she appreciated what she noticed within the prince. ‘You speak as you find,’ she says. Helen has arrange a basis in her overdue son’s title to lend a hand different households at the sort of tough time.
In the ones tough early years, he was once a very important human sew within the commemorative calendar.
Today, the Royal Family must make do with out Harry – the VE Day extravaganza a reminder in their persisted symbolic significance in our nation’s wealthy army tale.
Britain’s servicemen and ladies, veterans and their households depend on a diminishing band of royals to supply necessary management within the act of remembrance, each at times.
For because the Duke of Kent neatly is aware of, freedom isn’t unfastened.
- Lest We Forget, War And Peace In 100 British Monuments by way of Tessa Dunlop is out now